One of the first tasks of parenting is deciding how long we let the baby cry, how we respond when they do, when do we let them self-sooth. Then we decide what boundaries to set for the toddler how close to the fire, the pool, grandma’s figurines do we allow them and how do we enforce those limits.
We calibrate the boundaries as they go through primary school and by the time they hit secondary we usually have had to have phone and device boundaries, sleep over, stay up, acceptable viewing and language boundaries and expectations on how they treat other members of the family. If we fail to set boundaries young people feel lost and will punish us usually with bad behaviour or defiance.
The battle of adolescent parenting is calibrating boundaries so that by the time they leave home they are independent, self-disciplined and well regulated. They only learn to be like this because they have practiced being responsible with negotiated and appropriate boundaries.
It is a tough job but here are a few considerations:
Join us this Friday 25 October for our Rupertswood Harvest and College Open Day!
Read an update from our Director of Mission and Faith, Stephen Connelly
Read an update from our Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
What a show! Click here to read our amazing results from the Royal Melbourne Show
School holiday time and been out and about, I could not help but notice in some retail shops and shopping centres that Christmas must be coming!
Year 7s will be receiving their final round of immunisations this week
The Tuning in to Teens program is being offered free of charge by the Sunbury Youth Centre
Read an update from our Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Get ready! Our annual Rupertswood Harvest is taking place on Friday 25 October
Congratulations to our Tech Girls who are the Victorian State Winners at the Girls Movement Foundation
We celebrated Salesian Missions Day with a footy colours day, raising funds to be donated to Don Bosco Technical School
Full summer uniform to be worn from Monday 7 October, read here for more details
It is time to reflect and prepare for all that comes with Term four
Our Year 7's are learning about Celebrating the Eucharist. Read here for more
A very exciting time in the Agriculture calendar is upon us, the Royal Melbourne Show
Read an update from our Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
What a day! We are all still on a high from our MADD day, click here to see more
Hear from our Deputy Principal of Learning and Teaching
Congratulations to everyone who took part in this years Winter Sleepout
Preparations for the Royal Melbourne Show are well and truly underway on our farm
Our students recently took part in the Book in a day competition Click here to read more
Read an update from our Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Book your tickets now! Our Twilight School's Father's Day Breakfast takes place next Friday 30 August
This week we are celebrating Science Week, click here to see what is taking place
Read and update from our Deputy Principal for Learning and Teaching
Hear from our Director of Mission and Faith, Stephen Connelly
See what our Agricultural students got up to on the Central Victorian Poll Dorset Bus Trip
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Our Languages department has been very busy! Click here to read more
Read and update from our Deputy Principal for Learning and Teaching
Band performances, Art competitions and more! See what we have been up to in the Arts
Book your seat now! Our Father's Day Breakfast is coming up
Year 12 students Cate Agius and Eleanor Borg tell of their time volunteering in Cambodia
Read an update from our Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Congratulations to all Agriculture students who represented the College at the recent Australian Sheep and Wool Show in Bendigo
Read and update from our Deputy Principal for Learning and Teaching
Click here for an update on the changes taking place at our Mazzarello Campus
Read an update from Acting Principal, Mrs Angela Romano
Our agricultural students really put on a show at Holbrook. Click here to read more
Click here for an update from our Deputy Principal, Elaine Dugdale-Walker
An update from Jodie FitzGerald, Deputy Principal - Teaching and Learning
Read an update from our Director of Faith and Mission, Mr Stephen Connelly
Don't miss a thing! Add these event dates to your calendar now
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Our first all House Charity Day was a great success! Click here to find out more
Want to know more about subject changes? click here
Read an update from our Director of Faith and Mission, Mr Stephen Connelly
Start spreading the news! Alexandra De Bono is doing an internship with The New York Times
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Read an update from our Director of Faith and Mission, Mr Stephen Connelly
There is still time to get your tickets for the Twilight School's budgeting course, as well as the upcoming Kokadama making course
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Click here to find out what is taking place on our Open Day, including tour times and how you can be involved.
Want to set yourself a budget? Come to a Twilight School event and within a couple of hours learn some tips to set you on your way.
We have been impressed with how our students have commenced Term 2. Read an update from Mrs Jodie FitzGerald.
Read an update from our Director of Faith and Mission, Mr Stephen Connelly
Click here to find out more information about our Careers Department and the activities undertaken recently by our students.
The Art and English faculties are excited to announce a new competition for all our budding creative writers at Salesian.
Just a gentle reminder to families about our uniform expectations for students.Â
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Our Mother's Day breakfast is fast approaching, book your tickets now for 3 May.
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
All parents are invited to sit under the stars and enjoy a free movie night on our College grounds
The booking system is now open for our Parent / Teacher / Student Interviews
A lot has been happening on the College grounds. Click here for a full update
Click here for an update from our Deputy Principal - Students
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Catholic Education Week 2019 is from Tuesday 12 March to Sunday 17 March. Find out more
Friday 15 March is National Day Against Bullying. Read on to find out more about 'Bullying. No way!'
Important reminders from the Catholic Education Office
Michelle Grover shares her experience as a competitor for the Youth of the Year Award
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Read a piece about the transition from primary to high school from our Savio Campus Director
Our Year 7s have been on their first camp this week and last; find out what they've been up to
A message from the Student Hub, as well as an update from the Wellbeing team
Information around data that is collected and how it is used
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Last Friday, the College gathered to celebrate the achievements of our graduating class of 2018.
Our 2019 College Play has been chosen...read more to find out what to expect!
At the end of last year, a number of our students travelled to Italy and Japan on cultural exchange programs
An update from our Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus, as we prepare to commence the 2019 school year.
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Our Christmas wishes of happiness and joy to our Salesian College Community.
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
On Friday 16 November, we celebrated the year's success with our Annual Awards Ceremony
On Friday evening we farewelled our graduating class of 2018 at the Year 12 Graduation Dinner
Hear from our 2019 College Captains experience at the School Captains Conference this weekend.
Confirmation of important dates for the end of 2018 and the beginning of 2019
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Read about some of the great activities that took place during our recent Salesian College Book Week
Book your tickets now to attend our end-of-year production
Read about a recent project from Year 7 Applied Mathematics; an elective class for strong mathematics students
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Last Tuesday evening we held our Year 12 Graduation Mass. Read more
And the winners are...! Find out the results for this year's Papworth Cup
Read an update from our Farm Manager about our agriculture program and the farm
Congratulations and best wishes to our Year 12 Class of 2018. Read the final Principal's Address to the Year 12 students
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
It's time for this year's Rupertswood Harvest; join us on Sunday 28 October
Our Year 11 and 12 VCE Media, Studio Arts, and Visual Communication Design are holding a Visual Arts Exhibition next week. Read more
Read an update from our Maths Learning Area Leader, including some helpful exam preparation tips
Read an update from our Farm Manager including updates about recent and upcoming competitions
Find out about current events and announcements for our local community
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Our Year 9s have been travelling to Melbourne to familiarise themselves with our city
It's almost time for our annual Rupertswood Harvest. Read more to find out what you can expect
Read an update from our Farm Manager including updates about recent and upcoming competitions
Hear from the students!
This fortnight we hear from two of our VCAL students on their recent Work Placement as well as a term wrap up from some younger students
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Cricket great, Darren Lehmann, visited last week as part of our Ashes Oval Redevelopment Project and our Father's Day Breakfast
Seven Year 7-9 students had eight hours to write a book, completely from scratch, using strict parameters provided that morning! Read more...
Last week we celebrated a number of staff achieving service milestones. Read more...
Term 3 has been a flurry of activity in the Performing Arts department. Read more...
Hear from the students!
This fortnight they share an overview of the recent Winter Sleepout.
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Find out more about what's been happening in our technology subjects
Don't miss out! Join us to hear from Australian Cricket great, Darren Lehmann
Find out the results of our recent House Cross Country competition
The latest edition of Certantes, our Salesian College Sunbury Alumni Magazine, is out now
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Read an update from our Careers Department featuring important dates and events
Over the weekend, our students performed our 2018 College Production in Moonee Ponds
Book your tickets for our next Twilight School Event, a Father's Day Breakfast on Thursday 30 August
Some of our staff and students are participating in an upcoming Vinnies School Sleepout
Hear from Cassandra Marr, Liberal for Sunbury, about topics relevant to our College
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
An update from the Director of Faith and Mission, including a prayer
Read an update from our Careers department including upcoming opportunities
Yesterday saw the official opening of the Ciantar Learning Commons (CLC), our new library space.
Our VET music students are performing this Wednesday evening in Sunbury.
It's time for this year's College Production. Next weekend, Friday 3 and Saturday 4 August our students will be performing Cinderella at the Clocktower Centre in Moonee Ponds.
Join our Parent Engagement Group to help plant 2000 new plants next Sunday 5 August.
Information about an important upcoming vaccination for Year 10 students.
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
An update from the Director of Faith and Mission, including a prayer
Read a curriculum update from our Arts Learning Area Leader, Rani Valencich
Read an update from our Careers department including upcoming opportunities
Find out some helpful information about how to explain the importance of maths to your children, including its use in everyday tasks
Our students (and their sheep) recently had great success at the Holbrook Sheep and Wool Fair
We have over 150 students working towards their Duke of Edinburgh Award this year
An update from our College Principal, Mr Mark Brockhus
Read a curriculum update from our English Learning Area Leader, Jade West
Find out some helpful information about how to explain the importance of maths to your children, including its use in everyday tasks
We love to hear about the outstanding achievements of our students, both within and outside the school environment
Read about our upcoming Twilight School Literary Event
Remember that all enrolment applications for 2020 close Friday 17 August
